I hear the rustle of the branches as I settle my back against the tree trunk. It’s warm but not uncomfortably so. From my perch in the dilapidated tree house, I can no longer hear the distant traffic, only birds and and a herd of deer as they migrate through my yard. I’m in the back yard of my five acres: not exactly the rugged wilderness, but neither is it some structured and orderly park or garden. It’s my private hideaway where I’ve always gone to commune with nature in solitude. This time, however short my visit home is, I’m still on a mission. I’m no longer aimlessly letting my mind wander, but attempt to send myself even further away. To go deep into my head where the subconscious is allowed nearly full reign.
I establish a breathing rhythm, letting the air circle in and out, in and out. Slowly I let myself fall through the crevice in the rock. That’s how it always begins. And more often than not, I appear in a lush deciduous forest. Every time, I have to fight the urge to take control of the meditation, to lead instead of allowing myself to be led. But after several practices, I’ve mastered letting go. As I walk through the looming trees, a black and midnight blue butterfly flits across my path. This surprises me and I take it as some incarnation from one of my favorite shows. However, after several attempts to seek out other creatures, I realize this is my totem animal.
This was my path to discovering half of my identity. The other half, the wolf, was a bit more concealed from me. On my mental journeys, I could sense a presence but it never materialized. If it weren’t for recording my dreams, I might not have noticed how the wolf has been a motif for much of my life. I think it’s because both of these creatures speak to different sides of me. The butterfly is gregarious, sunny, and lighthearted while the wolf is more related to my inner concepts of myself and how I treat close family and friends. And while these two animals seem in opposition, they in fact strengthen each other’s positive qualities.
I suppose though the butterfly came to me first in the most obvious sense, the wolf was my first real connection that I’ve ever felt. I’m always reminded of my freshman year when I was the youngest and newest being added to the color guard “pack.” My first friend that I made, Andrea, was very spiritual and connected. She was completely different from me, an analytical person who had to research, question, and dissect everything. She took everything with such a natural stride that I think that’s how I first connected with her, because I wanted to understand more about seeing the whole picture. In any case, she became my first friend and took me under her wing. I can still remember right before my first performance. My nerves were topping out, and I was completely full of nervous energy. Meanwhile, Andrea was starting a sketching project where she drew each of the girls in guard but as animals similar to their personalities. To calm myself, I’d help her decide on the cast and what kinds of expressions they should have. When it got to my turn, she didn’t even bother to ask. She just began to draw herself as a mothering wolf with me as a pup by her side. That image still reminds me of how close we were. Her and I were our own mini-pack within the whole. From then on, whenever we saw a wolf poster or jewelry or any such item it became our private little call sign to each other.
Fast forward three years, and I became alpha of my pack. I was truly integrated with all of my guard girls. That’s what the wolf says to me, that to belong in a tight knit group is one of the best gifts you can ever have. Sure, we’re not hunting, but we need the same level of cooperation to achieve our goals. It’s a pack mentality that turns all of my sentences from “I did” to “we did.” I recall reading in Animal Spiritual Guides that “wolf shows us how important it is to have a strong family where there is support and devotion. Yet she also teaches that at times it may be appropriate to choose the freedom of solitude, becoming the lone wolf to sort things out.”[1] So there is some duality involved as well. And that’s why in some ways I hold the wolf closer to myself than the butterfly. I love to be with others but I need my time for seclusion otherwise I lose myself in too many activities and opinions that I absorb from others. I have to pull myself apart to form myself as not part of the social amoeba but to keep my unique identity.
But as I said, the butterfly is equally a part of who I am and helps to guide me in this turbulent year. I’m not sure I could ask for a better docent who can help me make sense of the abundance of information that is continually surrounding me. I feel that the butterfly is a rather new development for me that has come in recent years as I’ve begun to struggle to change as a person. For much of my youth, I was rather anti-social and felt no need to interact with others. I found people to be a distraction from whatever my interests focused on, and I put minimal effort into developing friendships and acquaintances. But at least in the past two years, I’ve begun to break out of my self-created cocoon and reach out to others. I believe that my transformation into something more akin to a ‘social butterfly’ speaks strongly of my connection to this graceful insect.
Yet as close as the connection I feel with both these spirit totem animals is, there’s an interesting element of duality and opposition between them. The key symbol for the wolf throughout history has been the moon which “has the power of intuitive wisdom”[2] while the butterfly is a creature of the light. She is linked to air and wind which are “connected to the power of wisdom and knowledge.”[3] Instead of feeling these two aspects as contradictions, I feel they’re actually complimentary and help to round me into a more complete person. The same goes for the central elements upon which each are based. The butterfly is obviously a creature of the air while the wolf is a denizen of the earth and both of these have some sense of a gender orientation according to Animal Spiritual Guides by Luttichau. According to him, “earth is female in essence”[4] which ascribes to the idea of mother earth. It also follows along the lines of the nurturing family atmosphere of wolf packs, for wolves “are absolutely committed and loyal to the pack and find their place within the group.”[5] On the other hand, air is “masculine in it’s fundamental nature [and] it brings cleansing and clarity.”[6] In this case, the butterfly is not tied by familial obligations and is “reminiscent of freedom and creativity.”[7] I try to retain that ability to separate myself from the crowd in order to think in peace and decide on where I want my path to lead me.
And perhaps that is their greatest intersection point, the ability to guide a person on a journey. In all of my research, I’ve found both animals to be regarded as forms of guides, though of different variety. The butterfly is a symbol of the inner journey, the path of self transformation, whereas the wolf is more intrepid in terms of seeking out new paths. But both are excellent helpers who lead one to the growth necessary to fulfill their potential. Considering the many options I have at my disposal here in college (whether it be career choices, study abroad options, clubs and activities, or simply lifestyle choices), I know I will utilize their aide in finding the right direction in my life.
I embody many of the traits of my animals, as well I should, but there are some that I’m still working to improve. There are certain qualities that I’m aware I lack which, with the support of my totem animals, I believe I can master. To start with, I wish I were more openly trusting. I have a tendency to lean towards being paranoid about lending my books or movies. There’s usually no basis for my stress. One of the qualities I admire in the butterfly is how it is “free, flying from one flower to another, curious about life, trusting, full of joy.”[8] They seem so free from ordinary concerns, and I’ve never seen a stressed-out butterfly, nor one that didn’t know how to ‘slow down and smell the roses.’ I’ve always been such a goal-oriented, driven person that I know I need to learn to relax sometimes and accept life in all its beauty.
As for the lessons I wish to take away from the wolf, they revolve more around their inner stamina and strength. They are wise when it comes to using their strength; “they do not fight needlessly and often avoid fighting whenever possible.”[9] I know I can be too aggressive or in need of proving myself at times which certainly annoys my friends. I want to learn how to tone down and to be powerful because I have the ability to be strong, not because I’m defensive. It’s a balance that I feel I haven’t achieved yet, but I can certainly work towards this equilibrium.
So now, when I meditate or send myself off to bed, I’ve begun to think of my power animals, and they are entering my subconscious twice as often. I’m well aware that “in our hyper-industrialized, polluted, and plugged in culture, we’re too busy to connect with our deeper selves”[10] which made initiating this experience all the more difficult. But now that I’ve begun my journey, I feel more freed to follow the natural rhythm of the world. As quoted in the anthology, “every animal is a gateway to the phenomenal world of the human spirit.”[11] I’m ready to take my chances and walk through.
FINAL WORD COUNT: 1,737
WITHOUT QUOTES: 1,588
End Notes
1. Luttichau, Chris. Animal Spirit Guides: Discover Your Power Animal and the Shamanic Path. New York: Cico, 2009. Print.
2. Luttichau, Chris. Animal Spirit Guides: Discover Your Power Animal and the Shamanic Path. New York: Cico, 2009. Print.
3. Luttichau, Chris. Animal Spirit Guides: Discover Your Power Animal and the Shamanic Path. New York: Cico, 2009. Print.
4. Luttichau, Chris. Animal Spirit Guides: Discover Your Power Animal and the Shamanic Path. New York: Cico, 2009. Print.
5. Takatoka. Wolf. Spirit Guides. Manataka American Indian Council. Web. 18 Sept. 2010.
6. Luttichau, Chris. Animal Spirit Guides: Discover Your Power Animal and the Shamanic Path. New York: Cico, 2009. Print.
7. Takatoka. Wolf. Spirit Guides. Manataka American Indian Council. Web. 18 Sept. 2010.
8. Luttichau, Chris. Animal Spirit Guides: Discover Your Power Animal and the Shamanic Path. New York: Cico, 2009. Print.
9. Takatoka. Wolf. Spirit Guides. Manataka American Indian Council. Web. 18 Sept. 2010.
10. Andrews, Ted. “Animal-speak: The Spiritual and Magical Powers of Creatures Great and Small.” in Composition and Reading in World Literature, edited by Professor Bump, 71. Jenn’s Copy & Binding, 2010
11. Andrews, Ted. “Animal-speak: The Spiritual and Magical Powers of Creatures Great and Small.” in Composition and Reading in World Literature, edited by Professor Bump, 63. Jenn’s Copy & Binding, 2010
Images
Butterfly
http://www.7photographyquestions.com/2009/01/p32-a-vibrant-black-and-blue-butterfly.html
Wolf
http://aurorawolf.com/2010/06/a-peril-in-trophies/
Wolf Pack
http://www.photos-of-the-year.com/contest/08/potm/showphoto.php?photo=668
Wolf Girl
http://www.booksie.com/moonbeamergirl
Girl and Butterfly
http://www.layoutsparks.com/1/51045/butterfly-cute-girl-blue.html
Sunset
courtesy of the sky and my backyard